View from Morocco ...
attachment to family and cultural characteristics rooted in our society, family-brooding parents or friends, economic insecurity and unemployment, extension studies. Why are so many to be forced to stay with their parents?
In 2005, they crossed the milestone of forty years. To their bedroom walls are hung memories of their years "high school". They still sleep in their crib. Generation "post adolescence. Warm in the family cocoon, at the age where Arthur Rimbaud completed both his life and his work.
In the 60s and 70s who are now parents had virtually their own projects and their own lives. Soon, they got their first "job" and started a family. Today, if we slam the door, you may pay dearly for his entire vie.En Indeed, it is unclear why Said is still alive with his parents. At 35, he earns each year 52,000 DH (13th month included) or 4,000 dirhams per month. Strange, is not it? No, Said, like thousands of other youths of his generation, is a serious boy. Already in his studies, he excelled in all subjects before the contest to succeed a great business school in Casablanca, and be hired as a sales company in consumer credit. He was then 27 years. "Once I started working, I planned everything. I wanted to save to buy a two piece or at least rent one. I often wondered board and studied all the opportunities that presented themselves. But in vain. "Said is natural to stay glued against his home familial.Khalid, 32, believes that" without his parents, he would be on the street ".
All day, he paces around the house. When he leaves, it is to smoke a cigarette - his father does not smoke, or to meet with his friends to "kill" time. "There is nothing to do," he said. It would obviously work, establish a home and give form and life to his dreams, but he can not. Who would like a degree in History and Geography? No one contends that Khalid thank God Having parents as understanding and generous. "I'm lucky, very lucky. But I'm addicted. It's very hard to live."
Other cases: CI 30. After years of studying medicine abroad financed by his family, he decided, or rather family opted for an arranged marriage. Back home and with his wife to whom he owes his all-in-laws took the couple over, until our candidate can find a law firm located in Casablanca. Just because young doctors today categorically refuse to venture out of Capital économique.Aujourd 'hui, CI saw "with happiness and harmony" in his wife's family. He divides his time between sports and meditation. Filled by this lifestyle that has lasted for 20 months already, this young man has no plans to abandon the home of his parents-in spite of a life without emotional significance. For, in fact, the solution to its problems would undoubtedly side of his stepfather, known for his generosity and understanding. Dealing suivre.Si families did not help their children and massively if the spirit of family solidarity was not as strong among us long ago that these young people would have revolted against the fate reserved for them. Fortunately, all parents "fork out" their own way and within its means.
Employee's status, HB 30. For him "life is just hard." After long and difficult studies, the problems are just beginning. In some specialties, we quickly made the rounds of local firms. The problem becomes even more difficult to solve when the area in question is in crisis. Then began the long-term unemployment. "You end up looking the slightest chance of employment. The single job, however precarious it may be, if he is badly paid and so" small "is it .. Here Nor the battle is not won. But we can be thankful the day we finally found a "job" steady and stable. Even if not necessarily in sondomaine studies. After some time, you can reach a salary of three thousand dirhams. It's much more than the minimum wage but that does not allow to be independent in a city like Casablanca. Especially when the work is far from home and transport costs and food outside, you take most of your resources. So whether you like it or not, you are obliged to live with your parents for an indefinite period. It gets worse when you marry. The problems multiply. To be "accept" must participate in the maximum expenditure. With the birth of children, the situation has only become more complicated, "admitted bitterly our interlocutor.
In Morocco, leaving the nest is simply exceptional. A large majority of employees aged 25 to 35 still live Haj and in Hajjah. A situation that continues even beyond the wedding, thanks to the great family solidarity and esprit de corps, which allows low-income couples to enjoy the food and shelter in the Waiting days meilleurs.Les young Moroccans, who admitted to being tormented by many to envy to dispense with the guardianship of parents have given way to older teenagers too frightened by the future take flight. But rare are those who skip it. The rest is packing a very advanced age or inherits the home and parental property.
Kamil.O, 60 years and father of two unemployed graduates admits that "it is obliged to help them. Otherwise, they are not doing. I talked to my family. Everybody does the same, more or less discreetly. "Yet economic insecurity and longer studies, which are good for nothing, do not explain this prolonged cohabitation of young people and their parents. The latter became the friends of their children, pay without judging and protect without restricting them. So why leave? Within ten years, the phenomenon has increased. This trend is due not only to an archaic cultural trait, but also to job insecurity and lack of prospects. These young people do not consider themselves to be stable again. The labor market in Morocco is certainly not for encourager.De the other hand, young people want to save. Especially, due to a cultural factor widespread among us, Moroccans prefer to buy a home rather than rent one. However, the case is Corsican when it comes to getting a little privacy. A real annoyance than a setback for the new generation.
But there is another category of young, unable to break away from their families. The latter took up the torch and go, without other choices, help their parents, usually very poor and greatly assist in the education of their brothers and sisters. They did not so much alternatives as the family comes first. This category of youth is lost in the crowd of daily hassles and eventually accept the fait accompli (to help sister to marry, fund education and studies of the little brother to help relatives of the family, etc.).. These young people realize, sometimes very late, they have not had the opportunity to enjoy their youth. Where late marriages and divorces too fréquents.En general, these young people who refuse to leave the hotel family are only pre-adult. Because it only becomes truly adult in gaining a true financial independence and not believing himself more obliged to follow the path laid by the parents. Moreover, these youth are projected in the wrong time. Some do not want to go too fast in work and instead seek internships. Yet there comes a time where these pre-adult must venture outside the nest and rely only on themselves mêmes.A Indeed, beyond this, there is the sad reality of the time. Living conditions. Why leave when everything is holding you back? When everything is both secured and free! Indeed, long-term cohabitation enable young people to find their way gradually into a world of increasingly complex and demanding. By continuing to care for them, parents give them the opportunity to chart their way slowly but surely staff.
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